played chess with chong,he won straight.

told him on msn that he is a pro.

he said that,"no choice,you won me so many rounds"

i then added that his attitude in chess is not worth mentioning as he never respect me as his opponent by giving it all out when we played at his place.till when i beaten him many times and he started to display his true skill.

giving your best shot is to respect your opponent,i have learnt this logic through today's incident.

he then replied, "i anything de" which made me pissed off as a sign of heck care attitude.

i am pissed not because i lost to him,but because of his attitude in matches.it was like telling me he was just entertaining me right from the start,without thinking so much.or rather,no need to think so much at all since he won me 4 rounds out of 5 when we were playing it last year.

his replies on msn were rather "ya ya papaya",

he said,"ok, i pro..."

not even humble at all.

if i am someone who is very petty,i would have pissed off when he beaten me 4 rounds at his place last year.it's his perspective towards matches.

you want to play,please make use of your brain before you move.not because for the sake of playing,you just hamtam any move.it's an utterly disrespect towards your opponent.

to think that my skill was greatly improved after i beaten chong this year,but it was all a false hope.

i decided not to touch chinese chess again,i have lost so much confidence after i have lost so many rounds,straight.low self esteem i have huh.